What is Sexaholics Anonymous?

What is Sexaholics Anonymous?

Sexaholics Anonymous is a fellowship of men and women who share their experience, strength, and hope with each other that they may solve their common problem and help others to recover.

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Has sex with self or with someone other than your spouse become destructive? Are you hooked and cannot stop? Do you long to be happy, joyous and free?  We can help!

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How do we define sobriety?

Sexaholics Anonymous Statement of Principle

We have a solution. We don’t claim it’s for everybody, but for us, it works. If you identify with us and think you may share our problem, we’d like to share our solution with you (Sexaholics Anonymous, 2).

In defining sobriety, we do not speak for those outside Sexaholics Anonymous. We can only speak for ourselves. Thus, for the married sexaholic, sexual sobriety means having no form of sex with self or with persons other than the spouse. In SA’s sobriety definition, the term “spouse” refers to one’s partner in a marriage between a man and a woman. For the unmarried sexaholic, sexual sobriety means freedom from sex of any kind. And for all of us, single and married alike, sexual sobriety also includes progressive victory over lust (Sexaholics Anonymous, 191-192).
Passed by the General Delegate Assembly February 2010

The only requirement for SA membership is a desire to stop lusting and become sexually sober according to the SA sobriety definition.

Any two or more sexaholics gathered together for SA sobriety according to the SA sobriety definition may call themselves an SA group.

Meetings that do not adhere to and follow Sexaholics Anonymous’ sobriety statement as set forth in the foregoing Statement of Principle adopted by the General Delegate Assembly in 2010 are not SA meetings and shall not call themselves SA meetings.
Addendum to the Statement of Principle passed by the General Delegate Assembly on July 2016.

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Practicing The Principles — Twelve Steps Changed Her

(from Essay October 2019) Hi, I’m Wendi, sexaholic in Colorado with progressive victory over lust since November 7, 2011. Recently I attended a regional retreat with the theme “Practicing The Principles.” I really hadn’t given this much thought so I looked up the definition of “principle.”  One...

La Cárcel De Mi Egocentrismo — The Jail Of My Egocentrism

(from Essay October 2019) Hola compañeros. Soy Rafael de Colombia. sobrio desde el 1 de junio de 2016 y solo por hoy. Estoy en el paso 12 con mi padrino. Con frecuencia me siento impotente ante lo que mis ahijados me comparten, pero a pesar de ello con frecuencia también siento que me ayudan mucho...

Single and Serene

(from Essay August 2019) Single is a unique platform I viewed men as toys or saviours but never as human beings. They filled my time until I found THE ONE who became my god. The fear of not being loved or accepted drove me into depression, misery and fear of abandonment. I believed that the ONE...

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